Khloe Kardashian Odom...try putting that on a credit card.

It seems that they did it. After a month and giving new meaning to "rush to the alter", Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom got married yesterday at a private residence in LA...of course with video rolling. The bride was in Vera Wang and the groom was in a custom suit.

While texting and flashing her new rock (the engagement ring was reported to be 9 carats, no word on the weight of her wedding band but you know it has to be crazzzy!), Khloe Kardashian Odom (how many spaces is that on your email or credit card??) and the hubby, were photographed just outside a hotel in L.A. last night after they wed. I guess all that extreme-planning had Khloe tired.

There following comment was made and it made me think; "It's really wonderful that some couples in longtime committed relationships are allowed to legally marry in the United States." If you think it's right/wrong for gay/lesbians to marry is your own personal opinion and I'm not here to judge. People date for years and then decide to get married, only to get divorced. There are couples married for over 25 yrs and then they separate. Some date for weeks...and run to Vegas. Who are we to judge what happens once the CAMERAS go off...or for us normal people, when the doors close. I will just say that I hope that this was REAL and not just good TV for the 'real'ity show. Here's wishing them lots of luck!!

What you need to know about attending bridal trade shows

Are you newly engaged and never been to a trade show of any kind? Let me tell you, even if you have been to a trade-show, a BRIDAL TRADE SHOW is unlike any you have ever been to before. There are a few things that will help you survive with as little stress as possible. Most of all plan to spend time waiting in line to speak with vendors as you will be with other brides-to-be wanting the same information.

I will be truthful and say that some shows are better than others. Some are larger and sponsored by a magazine like Bride, InStyle or The Knot, others by smaller wedding organizations. Each will bring their personal style and vendors. Go to one of each (I’m sure you will go to more than that), and you will see. Bring your fiancée – remind him that this process is a team effort.

1. Wear comfortable shoes. Even if you are used to walking in 4inch heels all day, the stop/go of a tradeshow will make even the heartiest heel-wearer tired. I’ve seen more than one bride complain about tired feet after a few hours at a show. Bring some flats – you’ll thank me later.
2. Bridal shows will take a long time – so be prepared to spend at least 3-5 hours (depending on the size of the show) walking, talking, listening, and tasting.
3. Bring at least 2 working pens and paper. This may seem like a no brainier, but you will be surprised that when it comes to registering for give-a-ways or initially registering when first walk in, you don’t want to depend on borrowing a pen from someone. Worse yet, you don’t want to register only to find out that your only pen has run out of ink.
4. Enter every ‘give-a-way’ that is offered. You could win everything from a honeymoon, to china, your gown or limo service. It only takes a minute, but could be worth a lot of saved money in the end.
5. Want to make this an eco-friendly trade-show, bring pre-adhesive address labels, if you have them, or print some up on your computer. This will also save you a lot of time when you register for prizes. Most exhibitors will want to know your wedding date, so write it in. This is one of the best usages for those mailing labels that you get in the mail that you were wondering what you were going to do with them.
6. This is no time to be shy. Ask lots of questions, that's why vendors are there. This is their time to answer your questions and for you to see how they respond. Listen to the questions that other brides are asking – they may ask something that you didn’t think of.
7. If you see a vendor that you like, a table setting that is on display or a band that is playing a great song, write it down. Remember that paper and pen I told you to bring, print very clearly any information associated with that ‘thing’ you like. If you have a camera (or a camera on your cell) take a picture so you can remember. This is no time to trust your memory!
8. Some of your best discounts will be given at the show. However, don’t be pressured into doing it. Remember there are lots of people to see and you may want to get recommendations from others who have used their services before you put down a deposit. Ask the vendor if they will extend any show sale price until you have time to look at everything and speak with your fiancé. Most will say yes, and if they say no, really think about it. Do you want to work with some one who is inflexible?
9. Let me say this again…TAKE YOUR TIME!! Gather all the information you can and take it home. Relax, grab a glass of wine and then go through all your goodies with your honey.
10. Bring your fiancé, your Mother and girlfriends. Give them a list of things you are looking for and in an especially large show, spread out. You can cover more space that way. Meet after 1 hour and re-group – share information.

I love a good bridal show. It’s a time to say hello to some old friends in the industry, make some new friends, as well as see what’s new for the next season. While I attend a great many of them, it still makes me sad to see the panic on the faces of prospective brides, or all the prospective grooms hovering near the bar wishing he was any place other than a show. These shows should be fun and if you come prepared it will be. Here’s wishing you a good show!

Archie and Veronica sitting in a tree...

Photo with thanks from Archie Comics

I simply can't believe it. I'm sure Betty can't either. After years of dating, being the faithful girlfriend and all of the antics that Veronica threw her way, today Betty learns that her dreams to marry Archie are over.

Archie asked Veronica to marry him? I know...what is he thinking?? Maybe it was her money that finally won him over (say it isn't so!!). Maybe it was Betty's constant hinting (hey it's possible). Perhaps Archie just saw a kinder, softer Veronica than any of us realized.

Let's face it it happens. Some people we think are supposed to be together for ever and didn't: Brad and Jen; J Lo and Ben; Farrah and Ryan and I'm sure the list goes on. This however, could send shock waves through out the comic industry and change Archie forever.

So you're not a comic book fan that's ok. How would you handle it if your boyfriend of years changed his mind? What would be your reaction to seeing your "enemy" wearing the ring you were supposed to have? Do you think this happens in real life - absolutely. Let's just hope that if it should happen to you, it won't be plastered on the front page of a comic, people magazine or your home-town local newspaper.

Be like Betty and handle it with style, class and grace.

Unique wedding ideas from food to fashion

Divvies gift pack

FOOD
Are you one of those people who is allergic to peanuts or other foods? Are you following a strict vegan diet? Do you know people in your family or people who will be attending your wedding that are? Well, Divvies is a company that can provide you with a great food alternative. I’m not saying that they can do your wedding cake, but they do have cupcakes, popcorn, candy and other really great treats that are made from a unique dairy-free and egg-free recipes. Take a look and try some new goodies.
Divvies - http://www.divvies.com/

PRESIDENTIAL INVITATION
How many of you would like to invite the President of the United States to your wedding? Well, I’m sure he’s a bit busy, but you can have the Obamas send you a congratulatory note. Look at it this way, you won’t have to feed the throngs of Secret Service agents or compete with Michelle’s killer arms. Send your invite to:
The Honorable Barack Obama and Mrs. Obama
The White house Greetings Office,
1600 Pennsylvania Avenue - Room 39
Washington, DC 20500 or fax 202.395.1232

model alanna kivalya

CEREMONY READINGS
Have you picked your readings yet? Don’t know where to start – I do. www.todays-weddings.com They list some of the more popular readings, scriptures, poetry etc. None of those work for you, then try www.myweddingvows.com.

EXERCISE NOW
The warm weather has finally arrived... and with the sunshine, the return of the Bryant Park Yoga Program! Every week, lululemon is offering two complimentary open-level yoga classes in the heart of Manhattan, Bryant Park: Tuesdays: 10-11AM (meet on the paved patio at the northeast corner of the park) Thursdays: 6-7PM (meet on the southwest corner of the lawn). The season begins on Tuesday, May 5th and runs through Thursday, August 27th. If you have your own yoga mat, please bring it along! Questions? Email: east66th-store@lululemon.com In case of rain call: 212-768-4242 and for more info check out: www.bryantpark.org See you soon.

OUTDOOR WEDDING POSH POTTY
If you are planning an outdoor wedding you don’t want your potty to be the lasting impression your guests have, Kohler’s has portable rest rooms that you can rent and you know what…your guests won’t ever know they are ‘in nature’.
www.kohlerrental.com

TATTOOS

Did you see Angels and Deamons this weekend? If you did, then you saw several illuminati styled ambigrams that are really beautiful. Don’t know what I’m talking about? Well let me explain. An Ambigrams is a word or group of words that you can read both forward AND upside-down. Just like the tattoo to the left, no matter how you look at it, it still spells "Faith". Cool huh?

I know, why am I telling you about this and what does it have to do with your wedding? Well to start, these are pretty cool. How great would it be to have both you and your partner’s name, as one, on your invitation or on a napkin? After speaking with Mark Pamer, the artist and creative director behind wow tattoos, he can create a custom ambigram in 7-10 days. If you want to create ‘temporary tattoo stickers’, a great ice-breaker and 'id' for destination weddings or engagement parties he can help with that too. I know that the little kids that are a part of the ceremony would love it. If you want to make it permanent, then Mark can send you the custom design and you can take it to your local tattoo artist for replication on the body part of your choice. Check out Mark's site - http://www.wowtattoos.com/

How not to break up with someone like Jason Mesnick

I really have to write just a quick note about the Bachelor last night.

Like many of you who watch and were rooting for this single dad to find the love of his life, I sat there with my mouth open saying “Oh My God”, over and over. I can’t imagine what happened to have him change his mind and to do it so publicly? It seems that Melissa’s parents were ‘right’ not to want to be a part of the publicity of it all and didn't want her heartbroken. I'm not a parent, but I was heartbroken for her just the same. Being in a real-relationship is work, real work and it takes two, so good luck to Jason and Molly.

You my lovely couples are living in the real world; away from the spotlight and the things that are ‘made for television’. Your life and love are hopefully real. The excitement of the engagement is great but it’s just the beginning. While I’m hoping to help you navigate through the sometimes stressful wedding planning, I will say that your partner may sometime see you as, a bride or groomzilla (yes groomzilla’s exist). Don’t worry, as long as you both communicate daily and work together things will be fine. In the end, the engagement is just the beginning, the wedding is just a day – the marriage is what we’re hoping will be for a lifetime.

Key: Being a good partner means being able to communicate daily, and remember the reasons you want to be together.

If however, you have decided to end your relationship, don't do it in public. Don't take them to a restaurant in the hopes that they won't create a scene. For gosh sakes, don't do it in front of millions of people. Keep in mind that at one point in time you, at least liked this person and this, even if 'expected' will still be hurtful. Knowing it's over and hearing it are two very different things. Maybe like Ross and Racheal of "Friends" fame, you just 'need a break'. Take one. Talk it out. If you decide that you can't be together, treat this person with the kindness and dignity they deserve. Remember it could be your brother, sister or even you on the end of a broken heart and relationship.

Until next time…